i have actually the exact same issue with a man im since a couple of years together.

Or better said I became together because i have ended this relationship today. Before we get further i want to express sorry if my english isnt that perfect im maybe not from america or england plus it isnt my very first language. 1st months as we had been together it absolutely was actually good. I woke up in which he penned actually sweet communications if you ask me (that we didnt expected after all ever) nonetheless it made me personally happy of course…to get daily messages. Not simply into the morning. He had written to me personally all day every day.as quickly when I came online later in the day he immediately published he had been like looking forward to me. And someday every one of sudden it all stopped. Absolutely nothing continue reading this took place (no fight or arguing absolutely nothing) the initial time i wasnt really concerned about just a lil bit wondered and perhaps also a little sad that we didnt got any message. On the 2nd tweme i had been concerned because we havent heard from him he didnt react to my communications at all. I was concerned that he might had a major accident or something like that bad took place.

A day and then i was really worried i could almost not concentrate on my work cause i have had scenarios in my mind what might could have happened to him i work 14 hours.

. Wrote him whenever I possibly could take a small break to know that all things are alright with him.no reaction at all. But i saw him being online each of sudden…so we thought ok then at least nothing really bad can have happened to him.so (he is at least alive) i finally reached him in the evening (he answered the phone) it was like nothing has ever happened. I said “i was worried because you didnt respond” he said “i dont look all the time on my phone” “i have other things to do than typing messages” and “the phone keyboard is annoying” “the app takes too long to load” (we used an app to communicate for free) “he hates to write messages on phone and doesnt want to do that anymore” and i was kinda shocked and confused. I was thinking omg how could he ignore this all i was worried that he is dead and he couldnt even respond like “no im alive”…and it continued like this for the next 10 months. Well i can say i felt like an idiot to write all the time and never got any respond at all. And i didnt even offend him. I wrote things like: that i hope he has a good day or that he is feeling alright, that i think about him and love him, miss him. And everytime i had a lil time at work to look on my phone i was disappointed cause he ignored me completely if he is online.

. I woulda have prefered an email respond with love “sorry i dont love both you and i dont miss you” but its worse to ignore somebody.

At very first i was thinking he’s maybe consumed with stress. And then we didnt want to bother him I happened to be thinking he’ll have their reasons if he doesnt write. But like we said it continued and I also actually felt such as an idiot.so i stopped to create him completely.no messages in the.no messages during the day.at first it felt weird but after a while i got used to it and also didnt think about writing him anymore or to look on my phone for a message from him. But something was missing. We see each other so less because of work morning. We do not actually life near one another. We told him personally I think unloved and im a nagging bitch in which he has plenty stress with learning he cant always write. I said to him ” i work 14 hours each day and i find the time and energy to compose a brief message it doesnt break my fingers”. He reacted with this “yes you may be miss perfect”. (to the point I have to say he could be workless sincei understand him and failed their exams three times) but i never puttet him straight down with hsi problems i desired always stay behind him whatever happens. I shoulda have actually pressed him down.it was pretty disrespectful it hurtet me always as he called me personally something such as this. Something like “miss perfect” what exactly is miss perfect about swemply because i have actually a task and compose my boyfriend throughout the time. He might make such big battles about absolutely nothing it seemed.it which he changed. He said had been like my face falls down within a second. I think he had an issue that I became working in which he didnt. He always been which means that in my opinion for about 10 months.no messages no responding. Nobody is the fact that busy he feels better that he can never ever write a message. Not even the most hardcore workoholic on earth. And he defenetily wasnt a workoholic. But i couldnt change it what should i do about that. Quit my job? As soon as we have seen one another it absolutely was like absolutely nothing has occurred however it nevertheless felt with less love. I dont recognize why this all changed it had been like “BAMMMMM” from a single time to a different he ended up being like another individual without that i have observed any rational reason why it just happened. Having less interaction made us drifting apart. I made a funny test. I have deliver him sexy photos (im maybe perhaps not moving in information) then he reacted. With a laugh and compliments.to all the after communications by desperately getting any attention or love from him. Which is kinda laughable and sad. Like 2 years ago i was model so i look extremely good i would say. (im just saying to show that im not so ugly to desperately run behind a man because i couldtn have another one) and he.is everything else than an adonis from me. Nothing…thenpictures again…and i got a message within seconds. I catch me. We cant know how he can treat me personally similar to this. And i cant understand why i also love him. There is absolutely nothing to love down. He isnt even successfull and he has no money. Sorry that was a lot but i had to get this all off me xD i hope to get away from the feelings towards him soon and to find someone who loves and respects me ?? about him he is neither nice to me he insults me a lot he pushes me